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MARRIAGE ENRICHMENT FORUM

A Publication by Alex Nosa Ihama - April 2006

According to Leo Buscaglia, an American university professor who is widely known for his numerous studies, researches and books on love, "Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain".

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Resultantly, regardless of the number of years that you have been married, you will agree with me that marriage is the most delicate undertaking in this world, and for it to thrive and survive, it requires consistent nourishment, unabashed attention, constant compromise and the daily renewal of our marital vows. But with the world experiencing the HIGHEST level of stress due to globalization, demand for higher productivity, depleting natural resources, increasing prices for basic human and societal needs, not-so-increasing wages, double income, escalating debt rate, widening gap between the rich and the poor, simultaneous large and small wars, mass immigration, global warming, growing demand for "impenetrable security", demolition/extinction of basic ethics and morals, and so on and so forth, how do we make our marriage thrive and survive when statistics indicates that one in every two marriage NOW ends up in divorce?

At The Exhortation World Outreach, we STRONGLY believe the following about marriage:

It is between a man and a woman EXCLUSIVELY, and was created by God for the purposes of Procreation, Mutual Support and Mutual Satisfaction.
MARITAL STRESS and regrettably, divorce, is more due to the lack of wisdom, understanding and knowledge about the concept of marriage than the statistical claim of incompatibility.
The key to MARITAL GROWTH is in individually, and as a couple, hopefully, cultivating The REAL Desire to make it happen. The REAL Desire means to tirelessly pursue marital wisdom, understanding and knowledge through the Bible and other applicable spiritual and self-help books; seeking and considering advices from other people; and the willingness to humbly change personal character traits in order to prepare the way for God to BLESS your effort.



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And recognizing the consistent necessity for ENCOURAGEMENT in this life's most blissful journey, The Marriage Enrichment Forum was formed by The Exhortation World Outreach to act as a SOURCE of ENCOURAGEMENT for couples with The REAL Desire to cultivate BLISS in their marriage and relationship. Facilitated on a quarterly basis by Alex Nosa Ihama, the forum brings DETERMINED couples together to discuss marital successes and challenges, as well as applicable tools, techniques and resources in a fun, open setting for the purpose of EQUIPPING, ENRICHING, EMPOWERING, ENERGIZING and ENCOURAGING their respective relationship and marriage.

According to Kassie, a regular participant in these forums, "My husband and I really enjoy the Marriage Enrichment Forums; not only are they great date nights, they are very informative and lots of fun. It is great to be reminded of how we really are NOT alone in our marriages". In the words of Wendy, another regular participant, "The Marriage Enrichment Forums remind me that our environmental and familial influences merge together to make us who we are today. I learned that through having constant involvement with strong Christians who are willing to be real with us, we can be vulnerable and molded. One of the most rewarding parts in (one of) the forums was when we were asked to turn to our spouse and let them know what we appreciate about them. This was a simple, but very important reminder that enabled us to not take for granted our amazing spouse. The forums that you have offered thus far have been extremely valuable to us. You may have no idea". (You may refer to the Feedback Corner for other feedbacks)

With the age of regular participants ranging from twenties to near sixties, and married years ranging from less than a year to over 30 years, the diversity of the participants provides the forum with a vaster pool of KNOWLEDGE and EXPERIENCE to draw from. This is in addition to the participants being representations of numerous cultural backgrounds like Cameroun, Nigeria and South Africa from Africa; Barbados, Jamaica and Trinidad and Tobago from the Caribbean; as well as Australia, Malaysia, India, England and Switzerland, amidst a good number of Canadians. Another benefiting composition is the participation of couples of diverse religions, interracial marriages and blended families.

The remarkable diversity of the participants was intentionally created in order to strategically position the forum to meet the marital needs of the diverse people in our society. It enables more seasoned marital discussions based on many, many years' worth of marriage knowledge and experience, as well as tables the best tactics of how to ENRICH and ENERGIZE marriages from numerous cultural and religious perspectives. "If man is to survive", Gene Roddenberry once quipped, "he will have learned to take a delight in the essential differences between men and between cultures. He will learn that differences in ideas and attitudes are a delight, part of life's exciting variety, not something to fear".

In his welcome speeches, Alex often commends participants for seizing the opportunity to learn more about how to ENRICH and ENERGIZE their marriages. He said that from his own personal experience, and also after working with so many couples to energize their marriages, opportunities like this Marriage Enrichment Forum is VERY instrumental in marital growth, for it provides opportunity to discuss and learn (or relearn) new ideas from other couples. In his words to participants, "Your enthusiasm about participating in this Marriage Enrichment Forum indicates your desire to have a more fulfilling relationship with your spouse. So consider yourselves heroes and heroines because I am confident that Satan must have given you every possible reason not to attend, but your desire PREVAILED. And may God continue to give you the strength necessary to keep the devil at bay from your marriages".



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While the Marriage Enrichment Forum is also a place to learn applicable tools, techniques and resources on how to help your spouse deal with his or her own marital or personality challenges, husbands and wives, and even dating and engaged partners are mainly EXHORTED to implement personal changes that often instigate and influence the personal effectiveness of their partners for the better. At EVERY Marriage Enrichment Forum, participants are guaranteed to learn and/or relearn at least one thing that will help take their marriage to an even greater height. In the words of Roger, a husband of fourteen years, and yet another regular participant in the Marriage Enrichment Forum, "Learning about other couples' experiences can bring a lot in your marriage; my wife and I have learned a lot from these seminars, especially when people are open-minded. We learn practical ways to improve our marriage, and are always looking forward to joining the group at the next session".

For the dates of upcoming Marriage Enrichment forums, please visit the "Program" section of our website.



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- Kong Fuzi (Confucius) 551 BC – 479 BC


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