Let's face it, whether appropriate or not, our career has a
lot to do with the first impression people have about us. In
fact, people intentional or unintentional judge us based on
general opinions of the work we do or where we work. Our
career is a conversation starter, a door opener, and our lifeline.
Come to think of it, though, the average person who goes to
bed at 10:00 P.M. wakes up at 6:00 A.M., leaves home for work
at 7, arrives at 8, and then leaves work at about 5 to arrive
back home at 6:00 P.M. This means that you and I spend
about 75% of our 16 wake hours pursuing our careers, besides
the time we spend thinking or talking about it even while away
from work!
As a Life Coach, I have been privileged to work with many people all over the world to successfully enhance the skills and competencies that they require to retain and excel in their demanding jobs, deal with very challenging boss, coworkers and situations, get the desired promotion, or transition to their longstanding dream career. In the process, I learnt the following:
We are
generally going to be as happy in life as we are in our career,
for if what we spend so much time doing is not aligned with
our Life Purpose, we labour in pain. Yes, some people
may be well paid, but they will never feel well if their hearts
are not in what they do.
We spend
a larger portion of our wake time pursuing our career, thus
placing it akin with every other important aspect of our lives.
We cannot completely separate other areas of our lives
from our career, but MUST ALWAYS ensure the APPROPRIATE balance
between them.
If we
consistently complain (inwardly or outwardly) about our career,
place of work, boss, coworkers, projects and everything related
to our career, we will never progress in it. In fact, this
attitude is a recipe for failure not only in the current career
but in every other future career. Like Martin Luther King
once said, "If a man hasn't found something he would
die for, he is not fit to live". This is applicable
to your family, values, spirituality and yes, your career
as well.
God
created us for specific careers based on the strengths and
weaknesses he graciously bestowed upon us. While we may sometimes
have to go through other jobs to finally find our Life Purpose,
we only achieve the highest level of job satisfaction
when our career is aligned with our Life Purpose. Basically,
if you won't do your current job for free, were money not
an issue, you are probably in the wrong career!
Without considering the impact of living
a dream versus fulfilling a designated purpose, most people
seek jobs that they may not have been created for - because
of the associated prestige and income, while parents innocently
groom their children from infancy for jobs that may hardly/never
bring fulfillment to their children. This is why survey results
indicate consistent declines in job satisfaction rates. This
is why the number of people who wake up in the morning
without looking forward to the job they spend 75% of their
wake time is increasing!
Those who are in the wrong
careers find slight excuses to stay away from work.
They complain about their boss, coworkers and everyone
at work. Change is harder for them to adapt to because
they feel threatened by everything. They shout for joy
on Fridays and moan aloud on Mondays. Even while at
work, they could barely wait to leave before their regular,
paid shift is over. Some claim to be 'very busy' with
'work-related' activities that seem to yield no results,
and then wonder why recognitions and promotions seem
to always pass over them. In the words of Apostle John,
"They are alive but have a reputation of being dead".
In the words of Aristotle, "We are what we
repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act
but a habit".
On the other hand, the top reason why people excel in their careers is because they enjoy doing it. It is because they have a passion for it. It is because they are enthusiastic about it, and fully committed to doing it with all their heart regardless of the pay. If your career is aligned with your purpose, you will be happier by 75% everyday; and very soon, the money which may have been tying you to a job you have no interest in, will become inconsequential.
My personal approach to work is this:
I go to work looking forward to creating a great day
for myself, regardless of whatever happens. I make every
effort to truly respect my leaders and every other person
at work regardless of any attitude that a chaotic day
may be displaying through them. I assume every project
with passion, quickly making it part of my career purpose,
for this helps me to generate the energy and enthusiasm
needed to make things happen. To protect my
integrity, I consistently apply more than the due diligence
in every situation. I have made "going the extra mile"
part of my daily routine because of the mere possibility
that some people around me may be dealing with a more
overwhelming workload and family life than me.
Another part of my daily routine is to keep myself informed
through every medium of communication that exists in
the company as well as external sources so that I am
able to share knowledge with everyone else. Other key
values include Trust, Teamwork and Accountability.
"To
find a career to which you are adapted by nature, and
then to work hard at it, is about as near to a formula
for success and happiness as the world provides. One
of the fortunate aspects of this formula is that, granted
the right career has been found, the hard work takes
care of itself. Then hard work is not hard work at all."
(Mark Sullivan)
Instead of saying, "I don't know",
I commit myself to finding out the answer. Instead of saying
or even thinking, "This does not concern me", I choose to
be loyal to my employer by shepherding the matter to where
it belongs. Since my manager is likely busier than
I am, I take initiative, keep him out of matters than I can
handle, and provide him with prompt updates on my successes
and challenges. Meanwhile, I am always on the alert
for cues, clues and feedback on how I may be able to do things
better; for I am convinced that if I wasn't created for this
job, I wouldn't be this happy doing it. Basically, like Apostle
Paul, "Whatever I do, I work at it with all my heart, as if
working for God, and not for people"; and God has tremendously
blessed me - even through people that others may consider
unpleasant. No doubt, "If you love your job, you will never
have to work forever".
In our next Career
Crusade coming up on Saturday, November 1st, 2008, we will be
sharing some awakening insights on the following:
How to determine your Career Purpose
What recruiters look for in your Resume
How to effectuate a successful Job Search
What to watch out for in Interviews
How to position yourself for Retention and Promotion
How to strategize your Career Transition
How to leverage the POWER of Networking
For a mere career investment of
$40 CAD, this workshop is designed for the unemployed;
self-employed and business owners who wish to translate their
vision into workable objectives; and the employed who wish
to enhance their skills and competencies, long to be promoted,
or contemplating a Career change towards a longstanding dream
job. So extend this exciting opportunity to your friends,
families, coworkers, congregations and communities. The
first 10 people to register get a transferable coupon for
a free one hour session of Resume Building and Career Progression
Planning with a Career Coach, which is valued at $75.
The website is so edifying and empowering. It cuts across to meet the
social, emotional, financial, relationship, physical and spiritual needs
of everyone. I am so blessed and encouraged by the words on it. The World
needs more of you with such excellent service provision.
Keep up the good work; your labour of love is not in vain.
As a young
man, Al was a skilled artist, a potter. He had a wife and two fine sons.
One night, his oldest son developed a severe stomach ache. Thinking it was
only some common intestinal disorder, neither Al nor his wife took the condition
seriously
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